Card Spells AND I

In spell casting you can change situations, but you can not change people into being something you want. The way magick works is knowing the difference between the two. In some cases magick works in mysterious ways if left alone to manifest. What happened was finally his best friend, who was much more daring, went up to her and introduced them both, even thought they did not know each other. They started to date and had a passionate relationship.
Would they have gotten together without the spell? Maybe, who knows? but it was fun just the same. Later, we both wondered: What if she did not like him after we cast the spell? I mean, she did not know him before she cast it. What if he was a loser? She could have been stuck with him until we did another spell to break them up. So if you are not sure in stating a relationship in a spell, use a lower number card, anything below the five of hearts. Anything that is lower then a five will not have as much of a bang.